Saturday, June 14, 2008

The importance of being unimportant

This is one of the most eminent features to be considered. The importance of being important is really impressive but the importance of being insignificant gives you an opportunity to realize the importance of your existence.


Being unimportant is really important for once and for everyone as it demarcates the maximum capacity of your sensitivity, after which you can commence with an unprecedented life again.

Being unimportant doesn’t mean the consummation of your vitality. It must be your resolution, not others, to question your importance. According to me, importance is self-possession and only you can feel how important you are by analyzing your spirit. Just leave others; you can judge yourself better than others can. You’ll always be important to people who need you and you should be confident for that. Give a damn to those who, till now, were in your priorities and you an option for them. Being optimistic and unimportant together can help you in realizing that “what disgusting people are they who make you feel like this” hmmmm…..cool..feeling better!!


Life is full of philosophies. On every turn you come across some kind of teaching and this is one of those. So just remember one thing-


“Escalate your confidence and you will feel the significance of you being in this world.”

Thursday, June 5, 2008

one of his best creations......तनहा !!

देखीये तो लगता है,
ज़िंदगी की राहों में,
एक भीड़ चलती है|
सोचीए तो लगता है,
भीड़ में हैं सब तनहा|
जीतने भी यह रिश्ते हैं,
कांच के खीलोने हैं,
पल में टूट सकते हैं|
एक पल में हो जाए,
कोई जाने कब तनहा|

देखीये तो लगता है,
जैसे यह जो दुनीया है,
कीतनी रंगीन महफिल है,
सोचीए तो लगता है,
कीतना गम है दुनीया में,
कीतना ज़ख्मी हर dil है|
वह जो मुस्कुराते थे,
जो कीसी को ख़्वाबों में,
अपने पास पाते थे|
उनकी नींद टूटी है,
और हैं वह अब तनहा|

देखीये तोह लगता है |
ज़िंदगी की राहों में,
एक भीड़ चलती है |
सोचीए तोह लगता है,
भीड़ में हैं सब तनहा |

- जावेद अख्तर

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

who moved my cheese...who really did this!!!

Being a kind of short story, still this book has proved to be the toughest competitor among its contemporaries. This is one of the best explanations to all those who question the "change" in their lives. The "change" that has let somebody into tears, some into laughter, the same "change" that is unacceptable to some while others pamper it. The "change" that, by now, is an inseparable part of yours to which you must be resisting by all your force.

This is human nature. The things that went against your volition must be highly unworthy and as your immune system works in transplantation, your discretion while your response will abet you in reacting against the undesirable. This might make you happy for an instance but not for more than, i say, few hours...

The only thing the book focuses on is to make the conditions palatable. The "change" here can be illustrated by many examples. Be it in the economic affairs of the country or the home affairs, from the breakdown of share market to that of little hearts, everything is a "change"and is your exigency to apprehend the things and finally make it unobjectionable.