The importance of being unimportant

This is one of the most eminent features to be considered. The importance of being important is really impressive but the importance of being insignificant gives you an opportunity to realize the importance of your existence.

Being unimportant is really important for once and for everyone as it demarcates the maximum capacity of your sensitivity, after which you can commence with an unprecedented life again.

Being unimportant doesn’t mean the consummation of your vitality. It must be your resolution, not others, to question your importance. According to me, importance is self-possession and only you can feel how important you are by analyzing your spirit. Just leave others; you can judge yourself better than others can. You’ll always be important to people who need you and you should be confident for that. Give a damn to those who, till now, were in your priorities and you an option for them. Being optimistic and unimportant together can help you in realizing that “what disgusting people are they who make you feel like this” hmmmm…..cool..feeling better!!

Life is full of philosophies. On every turn you come across some kind of teaching and this is one of those. So just remember one thing-

“Escalate your confidence and you will feel the significance of you being in this world.”

one of his best creations......तनहा !!

देखीये तो लगता है,
ज़िंदगी की राहों में,
एक भीड़ चलती है|
सोचीए तो लगता है,
भीड़ में हैं सब तनहा|
जीतने भी यह रिश्ते हैं,
कांच के खीलोने हैं,
पल में टूट सकते हैं|
एक पल में हो जाए,
कोई जाने कब तनहा|

देखीये तो लगता है,
जैसे यह जो दुनीया है,
कीतनी रंगीन महफिल है,
सोचीए तो लगता है,
कीतना गम है दुनीया में,
कीतना ज़ख्मी हर dil है|
वह जो मुस्कुराते थे,
जो कीसी को ख़्वाबों में,
अपने पास पाते थे|
उनकी नींद टूटी है,
और हैं वह अब तनहा|

देखीये तोह लगता है |
ज़िंदगी की राहों में,
एक भीड़ चलती है |
सोचीए तोह लगता है,
भीड़ में हैं सब तनहा |

- जावेद अख्तर

who moved my cheese...who really did this!!!

Being a kind of short story, still this book has proved to be the toughest competitor among its contemporaries. This is one of the best explanations to all those who question the "change" in their lives. The "change" that has let somebody into tears, some into laughter, the same "change" that is unacceptable to some while others pamper it. The "change" that, by now, is an inseparable part of yours to which you must be resisting by all your force.

This is human nature. The things that went against your volition must be highly unworthy and as your immune system works in transplantation, your discretion while your response will abet you in reacting against the undesirable. This might make you happy for an instance but not for more than, i say, few hours...

The only thing the book focuses on is to make the conditions palatable. The "change" here can be illustrated by many examples. Be it in the economic affairs of the country or the home affairs, from the breakdown of share market to that of little hearts, everything is a "change"and is your exigency to apprehend the things and finally make it unobjectionable.

Not boys always do such things……..

Don’t even want to think what all will you comment but still want to share. It was the time when I was doing my 3^rd year training in hyderabad with Prashansa, one of my best friends. Hyderabad is a very nice place to be and even one of the most apposite place to live. People out there are very friendly along with some of the others…..

It was Thursday, 4:00 P.M. in the evening, when we were waiting for our bus. Actually we were new to that place so we named a girl “lakdi ka pul” (wooden bridge ) as that was the place where we had to reach and we just follow her.

But that day situations were quite different. We were there at the bus stand waiting for the right bus, as we saw two guys making fun and talking in a very naughty manner. Being very innocent and decent persons, we didn’t give a single attention but as the two of us were together, till what duration this decency could be maintained ….. really !!!!! don’t worry, the only thing we did was, we stared….

We kept on staring them and noticed their wild expressions while watching a girl, having good looks, shortly dressed…hmmm…hairs unclutched, in short, quite appealing but everything works for boys. The situation continued for 15 minutes, she was gone but the other came. Same disgusting expressions exchanged by the two and still they didn’t have any idea of us observing them. It was their bad luck or ours as the bus was late. After an hour or so, they noticed us, quite difficult as we were sitting behind them, and then what we saw was really funny…. the one got conscious and ran away from there leaving the other, probably he too was waiting for the bus. He was very nervous and looking askance at us he just dumped himself into his book for the rest half hour.

Boys can never change. If the girl will arrive for the 50^th time even, they will watch her with the same excitement as if they are watching her for the first time. But girls are changing and there is a need even to blow up their chauvinism. Still... its their job to stare us and as the time is passing the thing is becoming prominent but we took a 2 hour break from it and realized the joy of being at that place......

Worthless relationships…enjoyed with time!!!

Terrible right! Hmmmm…Lets see

Taking it superficially or through the mouth of some saints “ relationship can never be worthless”. This statement is more of a burden than anything. Practically, lots of relations are moving towards the end line to win a trophy quoted “ worthless relationships”.

As it is becoming a national hobby of breaking of relations, insensitivity, misuse and etc my idea to ameliorate the condition is getting tougher. Anyways it’s better to get rid than get hurt. Our development is going in to and fro motion, the same as the pendulum have.

Before the creation, human was an inchoate mass that started its civilization in a very incommodious ambience. Society at that time for them was inconsequential. By the course of development everything just changed. Human decided to expand the species and reached at this level what we are seeing right now. The journey from an individual to a community took thousands of years but the reverse one might take a few years or a few days. People are loosing faith on relations as they are forced to do so. There could be any reason, no matter, what really matter is relations are getting from bad to worst.

Being trapped in such a hectic schedule and that wasn’t enough thanks to all K serials of various directors life is becoming like a dummy that is ruled by these idiotic serials. People are not getting time to spend and those who have do they use it seriously?

The best thing I have faced is a single person guides the relationship of two. This is dominance and the recessive suffers. The most appropriate question that comes to my mind is what the hell does he/she think of himself/herself? Relations are just used as a license to enjoy life……that becomes burden when responsibilities are considered and results into a relation that is neither worth to be continued nor to be dumped.

Do we know each other!!!!

Viplav: I wont forget the moment. The time was when I had an accident.

Me: You didn’t tell me about any accident. So very careless hmmmmm..

Viplav: Oh really!! I think this is the fourth time you are enjoying your STML(short term memory loss) in a span of a week

Oh my god! That was what I thought. Really.. That was our conversation at around 3:00 pm in the afternoon with everybody on both side sleeping and me making my own usual mistakes.

This is quite a very common problem to many people i.e. lack of concentration as realized to me by viplav only, as he was the first and the most frequent victim. This is the same case when you pretend to know a person but you don’t remember.. like:

• I think we have met but I don’t remember your name
• You are extremely beautiful and charming but getting confused with your name
• So then its time to move Mr. Hmmmm…yp got you ( actually that was the right time to apprise the person that you don’t remember him)

I had many memorable experiences over here. Some conversation that really pushed me into the well of embarrassment:

Do I know you?

I was as usual indulged into the lip smacking pastry at Mr. Brown with the total awareness of a guy staring me. But I kept on enjoying with my pastry

Even had a lot of words to throw on him but was saved by the girl sitting next to him. After an hour or so the girl turned back and said

Hi! Bhumika ?

Being caught between the two responses like the 1 is to be given and the 1 expected. The time was like, I was watching her with so much surprise with my mind doing his job, turning each and every chapter of my life in order to get the answer of

Who is she?

And at the same time her expectations from me that now I would speak up her name.

But unlike the expectations I didn’t say a word. We exchanged our responses for a minute or so and simultaneously my mind was boggling who the hell is she. But to my relieve and even embarrassment she herself said that

Prachi, my school friend with whom I shared 7 years (not a long span I think…. its all fool’s paradise). My face went red and the only thing I thought about was to move from the place but that wasn’t all, the next moment the guy, to whom I was ready to give some beautiful words, stood up and greeted me.

That was really hell!! He was my other classmate Amit and at that time I went numbed. But being one of the most sophisticated and friendly people (ironical) among friends I spoke to them for half an hour more and ran back to hostel.

This was one of the most terrible incidences of my life and even memorable that wont let me forget the things and people who are not worth forgetting.